when someone sits down and we can see they are gonna sit on a bird turd, do we just say nothing cos its 'not our business?' NO!lol!when someone parks their car out front of your house and you know it will get badged by the kids down the road..do you say anything?when someone hooks up with a partner that you know is non commiting and you know your friend is after commitment, do you say anything?if you can see a cockroaches ass hanging out the back of your friends burger they are about to bite into, do we say anything?so why the fcuk does society say we can say anything when a kid is getting pumped full o chemo.when grandpa is gonna get his chest hacksawed open and aorta cleaned with pipe cleaners.when fat jim or jane is risk'n diabeties from their high fat diet and fruit paranoia?why the fcuk we feel so guilty for helping crew that need help? why can we tell someone where to go to buy a meat pie but we are 'vegan fcuk'n nazi psychos when we tell em the meat pie is full of lips and assholes from up to 426 different cows'..or that meat pies are really just mouse coffins! lol! why cant we be honest? WE CAN! but we just think we cant. drones tell us we cant. the same drones programmed by the same system we have lived all our lives. today it must stop. we must turn our hearts back on with the spanner of courage and spray some determination on the lever so its fixed on living its purpose. to decide means to 'cut off from any other option!''but im only 1 person, durianrider, you dont understand my situation, you dont have my kids, you dont have my bills, you dont have my partner..' and your right. but you got 24 hours in the day. SAME as everyone else. you got a brain, you got some limbs, you got the ability to read this so you got lots to be grateful for. and if you dont like your situation CHANGE IT OR CHANGE THE MEANINGS YOU ATTACH TO IT..and remember, what we focus on is what we get. wether we deserve it or not. so lets be careful what we wish for, cos our wishes DO come true..we can speak the truth as we see it. never pass up the opportunity to help a fellow human. sure we can adjust our style accordingly. ie the more time you spend with someone the more WALK'N you can show em. but if your just pass'n someone on the street GIVE EM SOME TALK'N!what do i mean? sometimes its better to walk, sometimes its better to talk. you decide whats the best way to convey the message you wish to share. thats right, you get to do this at home! anything but 'dont try this at home folks'...you thought durianrider didnt give homework..wrong, baby, wrong.so go home tonight and start on your family. when the kids protest and ask whats up, just tell em' im speak'n from my heart, if you dont like it, you just need to change the meanings you attach to what i say and do. ie you just need to harden the fcuk up..' lol! you know what i mean..LETS GET CREATIVE IN OUR DAILY CONTRIBUTIONS! cos if you dont, get creative in educating yourself and those you care about, you can guarantee that madison avenue vulture crew will!we must always speak up if in our heart it feels the right thing to do. the system has us thinking that our voice doesnt matter. that the oscars matter, that our opinion doesnt matter, that the tv, radio etc is what matters. who are you? your just one person, you dont matter! lol! THIS IS WHAT THEY WANT US TO THINK.being silent when a fellow human does abusive things to themselves or others is NOT THE LOVING THING TO DO. we must be agents handing out tuff love where needed. help people raise the bar. hold them to a higher standard. and expect them to do the same to us. lets pick up our tuff love rackets and begin the tennis volley that champions are made of..or we can just shut up and let the system take control...sure its easier to just be quiet, but we must care enough to lovingly speak the truth!, even when we would just rather gloss over the problem or ignore an issue..if a toddler walks up to a pole and starts head butting it, do we step in? so whats the difference with big kids aka adults. lets show confused crew the way to health,as its the greatest gift we can give someone..
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I was picking up 3 gallons of cane juice this morning from the cane juice dude at byron www.byroncanejuice.com and a lady started up about 'Thats a lot sugar and doesnt it have the bad things of sugar?' (This sort of conversation happens daily and I love sharing information with people).
So I gave a quick rap about the differences between em and how even refined sugar aint as bad as people think cos kenya eats 20% of their calories and dont have an obesity crisis etc.
Anyways the lady said she has cancer and I told her even more info. She didnt want to hear it but I told her anyway! :) I was still talk'n as she was walk'n off. Didnt phase me if she took it in or not cos my job is to share more than care. If I really cared that most people would rather die than save their lives, Id be a depressed wreck. Doesnt mean I dont care but Ive learnt to share more than care, rather than care more than share.
Share the truth with those and if they care, you should care, otherwise we want it more for them than they want it themselves and its torture for everyone involved!! :)
uhh what a great discussion, ive always had an issue getting my words from my heart into verbal form, its partly in the stars and perhaps partly the amalgam fillings, kehe. often i can 'feel' the perfect thing to say and when i open my mouth im like ah.. puh... never mind. ive shared very powerful information with my partner, he is a hard core meat eating, beer drinking, cigarette smoking man. and informing him about true nutrition feels like trying to convince a muslim that christianity is better. its 27 years of being spoon fed black gooie stuff then this person thinks black gooie stuff is great, and is all there is, this person must have their own inner drive to discover they have been fooled this whole time, their own drive to have their world turned upside down, coz it was actually the wrong side up in the first place. perhaps im here to be the person to shine some light on the light already within him thats been dimmed for so long, maybe, maybe not.
i have faith and i know i can gain the skills to drill a little hole into his head when hes not looking so i can quickly plant a little seed in there, then water it from time to time, then one day he'll start eating some green and leafy looking thing at his own will and ill smile and nod :) ... can anyone please share their experiences; triumphs and not so triumphant moments where their partner/friend was/is a carnivor, or something similar, slowly killing themselves and 'naturally' resistant to nature- food wise. ??? maybe i could gain some good tips :)
the only way to drill those holes in their heads is through love. your guy, like my guy, has something about him that sets him apart from the rest of the beer-drinking, meat-eating crowd, or else you couldn't tolerate him. and you have something in you that sets you apart from the "drilling-holes-in-heads" crowd, or else he wouldn't be able to tolerate you. so you just love him. you love all of him, and you love yourself even more. self-love is irresistible.
and you set the example: my BF sees me as a glowing, happy, active, vital comfortable woman with a good libido and a raging sense of humor when I'm 811, and a "fat," bloated, miserable, uncomfortable, sexless mess when I'm on cooked garbage. he's seen the best I can be and the worst I'd allow. what's better is that he gets to see me stand at the kitchen counter and inhaling mangoes in ecstasy, and he's finally getting the point.
you never open the discussion. you wait for questions, or concerns. my biggest accomplishment to date was getting him off diet soda and on to black tea with agave. ideal? no. but better than coffee, which was the only alternative he could think of, but he opened the discussion for me to share with him. and he's drinking and asking for green smoothies, and he's just about ready to share my mangoes. I told him he's special enough, I might just let him have a taste. ; )
I know, I like to slightly comatosed with a coffee & peanut butter, chocolate, watching vids... happy the sun is here and going outside sunbathing makes fruit more appatising when i'm back home.
If you tell someone they are going to sit on a turd, they would agree and thank you. If you tell someone to move their car or it will get messed up, they will agree and thank you. If you tell someone there is a roach in there sandwich they will agree and thank you. Now it's a little different when you tell someone about something that they don't agree with at first. Now deep down I think everyone agrees that fruits and vegetables are the healthiest thing we can eat, but people will put up all kinds of defenses against this way of eating.
Another reason why I love this site is because people often talk about communication skills and I think this is of great importance. While we are upgrading our diet why not upgrade our communication skills so that we can be more effective when talking to others. Alot of what you say is how you say it and I know from personal experience that if I take a moment to re phrase how I'm going to say something it can really effect the outcome I get from the other person.
Just wanted to add that!
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So I gave a quick rap about the differences between em and how even refined sugar aint as bad as people think cos kenya eats 20% of their calories and dont have an obesity crisis etc.
Anyways the lady said she has cancer and I told her even more info. She didnt want to hear it but I told her anyway! :) I was still talk'n as she was walk'n off. Didnt phase me if she took it in or not cos my job is to share more than care. If I really cared that most people would rather die than save their lives, Id be a depressed wreck. Doesnt mean I dont care but Ive learnt to share more than care, rather than care more than share.
Share the truth with those and if they care, you should care, otherwise we want it more for them than they want it themselves and its torture for everyone involved!! :)
i have faith and i know i can gain the skills to drill a little hole into his head when hes not looking so i can quickly plant a little seed in there, then water it from time to time, then one day he'll start eating some green and leafy looking thing at his own will and ill smile and nod :) ... can anyone please share their experiences; triumphs and not so triumphant moments where their partner/friend was/is a carnivor, or something similar, slowly killing themselves and 'naturally' resistant to nature- food wise. ??? maybe i could gain some good tips :)
and you set the example: my BF sees me as a glowing, happy, active, vital comfortable woman with a good libido and a raging sense of humor when I'm 811, and a "fat," bloated, miserable, uncomfortable, sexless mess when I'm on cooked garbage. he's seen the best I can be and the worst I'd allow. what's better is that he gets to see me stand at the kitchen counter and inhaling mangoes in ecstasy, and he's finally getting the point.
you never open the discussion. you wait for questions, or concerns. my biggest accomplishment to date was getting him off diet soda and on to black tea with agave. ideal? no. but better than coffee, which was the only alternative he could think of, but he opened the discussion for me to share with him. and he's drinking and asking for green smoothies, and he's just about ready to share my mangoes. I told him he's special enough, I might just let him have a taste. ; )
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Another reason why I love this site is because people often talk about communication skills and I think this is of great importance. While we are upgrading our diet why not upgrade our communication skills so that we can be more effective when talking to others. Alot of what you say is how you say it and I know from personal experience that if I take a moment to re phrase how I'm going to say something it can really effect the outcome I get from the other person.
Just wanted to add that!
we gotta say what we mean and mean what we say..walk it like we talk it.
and needed it.
thank you.
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