2023-02-13T12:31:57Z https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/groups/nonviolentcommunication/forum/topics/feed/all https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/groups/nonviolentcommunication/forum/topics/how-to-stay-centerd-and-calm 2009-10-21T10:53:36.000Z 2009-10-21T10:53:36.000Z sandra winterdawn https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/members/sandrawinterdawn <div>when i am tired i react in a very negative way to what may be a simple comment from another person.</div> https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/groups/nonviolentcommunication/forum/topics/marshall-rosenberg-811rv 2009-07-02T20:26:06.000Z 2009-07-02T20:26:06.000Z Wilhelm https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/members/Wilhelm <div>Just out of curiosity:does anyone know, if Marshall Rosenberg (the inventor of NVC) is a raw-foodist or even 811rv?</div> https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/groups/nonviolentcommunication/forum/topics/when-people-share-their 2009-05-28T07:41:21.000Z 2009-05-28T07:41:21.000Z Cecilie https://www.thefrugivorediet.com/members/Cecilie <div>This is a tricky thing for me -Because when someone wants to share their feelings and problems, its a sign of trust, and thats basically a good thing. But it can be too much! For me at least.If someone its constantly sharing her worries, stress, problems with the boyfriend, I feel overwhelmed -and I start to avoid that person.If someone shares about stress all the time -I get stressed!! When somone talk about what her boyfriend did or did not do all the time, I get so tired!I dont know how to say "shut up, I dont want to hear another word, I cant take it!!!" in a nice way.I think Im good at hiding my distress, I just sit there and listen and wait for the sharing to be over...:/May be I could say thanks for sharing this with me, but Im to tired to be a good listener right now? But that doesnt really send the message that I CAN listen, just not to draining stuff non-stop, does it?PS -Just want to add that this is not with all my friends, its just the ones that talks relentlessly about their problems etc..</div>