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Can delayed ejaculation be helped with diet?
Hi there, I know erectile dysfunction can be helped with diet but I don't know if delayed ejaculation can be helped too. I should guess so. Any experience? I have a new boyfriend and I try to change his diet, and on the line I also hope this issue will be also improving. He is not fat, has maybe a couple of extra kilos, but eats very unhealthy. Not eating much but when he eats it's a disaster. The good news is he is willing to change so I will do my best.
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I had sex with my boyfriend of three years for the first time last week. I am 20 years old and I don't want to have children at the moment but my period hasn't come. We used the ovulation calendar, condoms, and he pulled out. My period is a week late and Ive been getting cramps all week. HELPP!!!!
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Alot of the source of our energy can be rooted in our sexual organs. the ovaries and for man his semen. i know you say your not interested in practices where you do not orgasm but the real truth is orgasms with certain sexual practices where you still retain the essence are some of the best orgasms you will ever experience.
My father gave me this book for males when i turned 21 and already had been trying to hold my seed naturally for a couple months cuz i watched as you say alot of nerve energy leave my spine after cumming, and of course was much less with a partner as we had each other to balance each other. but non the less watched my spine slowly feel more uncomfortable in itself like it lost something precious or like the soft bean bag it felt lke i was living on got turned to a hard uncomfortable wooden chair. haha it's uncomfortable and it's hard to sleep when your uncomfortable. i'm 25 now and have been practicing this taoist secrets of love, cultivating male sexual energy kung fu since that book, and the rate at which i've been able to grow spiritually has been tremendous then from before as well as having an extreme benefit on the connection and love and intimacy in relationships in that time. now i get amazing comfortable sleep :), although i must admit once in a blue moon i may have a really intense dream that can lead to the loss of some of that sacred seed and it has sometimes the potential as you said to cause me to be a little more uncomfortable while trying to sleep although my body recovers pretty quickly as maintaining that life force for long periods of time helps your body recover it's life force more quickly. to me it's like growing a tree as your starting that sexual energy is just growing mostly in your sexual organs like little trees and the more you allow it to grow the stronger and bigger the tree will become. if you really allow it to grow that energy will be able to nourish and take root in the base of your spine nourishing your nervous system more deeply and relaxing you at a more primal level. now if you cum there you'll be uprooting your tree and the life force my not be strong enough to keep it's roots in the spine, the spine would have gotten comfortable with the life force and it will feel uncomfortable like your naked in the cold wind(maybe this also may feel good :) but you know what i mean) but maybe it did retain it's roots in the spine and you have another orgasm and another.... i say let the tree grow get the energy to nourish your heart chakra or whatever you'd like to call that bundle of nerves in the spine and it will make you feel more love then you may ever had. a sweet nectar, keep your seed protected and grow your tree till you can feel that dense energy in your pituitary gland and it feels like your ovaries or testicles are pulsing with that gland. that signifies your endocrine system is working well and in sync. although for a male it may take 3 weeks or a month for his semen to cultivate enough Chi pressure for the energy to release that stage depending on how much he has abused his vitality with masterbation or substances and or of course diet. but grow your seeds with patience and time all the while still being able to make love, just while retaining that vital spirit essence. Then, when you want to experience amazing orgasms while retaining the essence, when your close to cumming. not too close ;) at first. pull that highly charged sexual high vibrational orgasmic energy into the base up the spine and up as if you had a straw going from your pituitary gland down to the base of your spine and drinking the Nectar all up passing the heart center in the spine on the way up and maybe causing a feeling of electricity or powerful orgasmic currents through your heart and body and i can almost guarantee you'll be smiling or at least feeling love. grow your tree and enjoy the delicious fruit it bears. and if it's mature enough you can feel stable enough to share that fruit with another..... and get better sleep. ;)
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Thanks for your reply, my name is purdey jane or purdey, never jane! :p
I had a therapist but I felt I no longer needed her as I know longer feel anger I have forgiven, I have rose above the past but I just cant seem to connect with lovers I literally dont like anyone I feel so asexual! Im scared ill always be this way and ill never find real love. I can love but I find I always love them in a brotherly or best friend type of way. If inly there was a simple answer. :(
Thank you for the recommendation on that book will look into it!
Hi Jane,
I'd try and find a good therapist to work out the past abuse trauma. sorry that happened to you.. it's horrible..
I also recommend to try karezza, a non-goal oriented (non-orgasmic), gentle, bonding type of love making.
i originally posted this in discussion on my blog but was asked to remove it as it is only a topic for this page.
Okay, so i suffered from an eating disorder anorexia/bulimia i was also diagnosed with depression, anxiety and low self esteem due to being traumatised when i was 5. ( My uncle sexual abused me) i attended therpay sessions which obviously after years of keeping this secret to myself had to be re opened, bringing back memories id been trying to block for years. ive been in relationships and ive had intercourse but never have i felt sexy during it , ive always felt used or dirty. obviously through my eating disorder i lost my period and it still has not came back. i have also lost my sexual attraction to guys and my arousal has completely gone in fact it makes me feel sick the thought of it.
Can anyone enlighten me on this topic if you yourself have experienced this and if it has came back and/or how long it took!
I think its time to try and rev this group up a bit and get started. I'm looking for some people that wanna offer ideas on how to make this group better.
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